I feel like one of the biggest relationship issues for people is all about the label. Which admittedly, I’ve had trouble with before. Are we dating? Are we boyfriend and girlfriend? Are we seeing each other? Hooking up? Doing the horizontal mambo? Platonically doing it but not talking about it?
Basically I’ve realized it comes down to this - if you communicate what you want out of another person (monogamy, open relationship, friendship) and you agree on THAT term, the other terms don’t matter.
You could call someone your husband, and he could cheat on you tomorrow. You can call someone your boyfriend and he could say, “I’d like to see other people” after four months. The label doesn’t matter, it’s the communication and agreement of what you mean to them and what they mean to you. Don’t get hung up on the label.
No matter what you think, you dumb fuckers are going to spoil all of Arrested Development with Spoiler-GIFs before all of us have time to watch the new episodes while we’re living our actual lives outside of Netflix for once.